Monday, August 23, 2010

Swiss table manners matter

The Swiss are very manners conscious. Even in schools, children are required to greet their teachers with a handshake and eye contact. When my children's friends come over, I am always pleasantly surprised by their good table manners and their use of please (bitte) and thank you (danke). Shortly before leaving, a Swiss child will come over to me, stick out a hand and thank me for the visit.

Here are some Swiss table manners:

  1. Be on time.

  2. Always wait for everybody to be served before beginning to eat.

  3. All meals are usually started with the words "bon appetit" or "guten Appetit."

  4. If wine is served, wait until the host begins the toast.

  5. When toasting, chink your glass with everybody at the table and look each person in the eyes before drinking.

  6. Keep your wrists on the table, but never your elbows. Do not place your hands in your lap.

  7. Remember to always say please and thank you.

  8. French bread is always torn rather than cut with a knife.

  9. Lift your forearm from the table while moving the fork to your mouth.

  10. Use your left hand for the fork and the right for your knife and gently push food on your fork.

  11. If you are served cheese as a wheel, it should be cut from the centre into slices (as you would slice a pie).

  12. When finished, put your knife and fork parallel to one another on your place as if they were hands on a clock indicating 5:25. If you don't do this, your host will serve you more food.

  13. Finish everything you take on your plate. The Swiss do not appreciate waste.

  14. These manners apply to children as young as two.

  15. Additional children rules: Make sure children wash their hands before meals. Children generally must wait to leave the table until everyone is finished.

7 comments:

  1. Really good one! How about no slurping, chewing with your mouth open and children only speak when invited to so.

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  2. Good ones! Thank you for your comment!

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  3. Very funny and ohhhh so true.
    How about: carrying your own plate to the sink even f your a guest. It is all about courtsey. ;)

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  4. Good one! Thank you dear Expat with Kids!

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  5. wait, so which one is the hour hand, the knife or the fork? And what if the chef sees it backwards, wont he/she think it says 11:55 and therefore, maybe begin serving you lunch?

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  6. Sounds the same as British manners.

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